pre-wedding story

hollaaaa..

lama gilers aku tak update my blog..bukan takde cite..tooooo many thing i'd like to share wif viewers, but i dont have enuff time to blog..busy gilers babeng..

mesti pelik kan..tak cukup masa??yes, i admit Allah kurniakan setiap hambaNya, 24 jam sehari..tapi, apa kan daya..masa terlalu padat dgn pelbagai hal..

ok..now..what to share yea??

my preparation few days before kawen..life was soo bz dat few days..segalanya bermula daripada 15 julai 2009, where myself & fiance gi amik baju kat butik Rins..(http://rinsbridal.fotopages.com/)aritu mmg dah gi fitting, cuma last tryout..mana tak, terkecik ke, terbesar ker..? that time i was soooo excited..at the same time, terfikir, betul ke aku nak kawen ni..?!baru perasan plak, baju busyuk utk majlis aku, kaler dia tak sedondon dgn my wedding dress...contrast giler..mine a bit silverish white, while his grey..my fault gak la...mmg pihak butik dah set men punya kaler putih, tapi aku yg insist nak grey..last2..cancel..amik putih gak...hoho...dan yg penting my white gown ada!!

i added few accessories utk pakai time baju kebaya songket-- oh yes..actually it has been my dream to wear baju songket & kimono on my wedding day..tapi to wear songket as the main attire, mcm rugi plak..yelah, bila lagi nak pakai baju lace lip-lap,kan..?time kawen jer lah..so, i asked mama kot2 dia ada baju songket ke tak..dia kata mami serdang pernah ada, where she used to wear it on her engagement day...mana bj tu skang??so i asked mami serdang to search it for me..hehehe..and atlast, ada!!!

baju kimono- which actually "yukata" mmg aku ada, beli pun purposely nak pakai time kawen..minta ain yg belikan...so, utk aksesori bj songket aku hanya ada 2 option : beli kerongsang :ibu-anak-anak atau sewa jer..tetiba dapat idea utk sewa , n lucky me rins has it..tapi rantai bertingkat tu lah..so ada additional rm100 gotta pay to rins utk sewa rantai bertingkat + necklace + earings...

untung betul kan org meniaga ni..padahal...dah balik modal pun...bape sgt la rega rantai silver tuh...!!

actually my day started wif my visit to spa. aku ada appointment kat Serenity SPA..saat yang aku nantikan ..my first impression : WOW!!....interior deco dia sgt la bali & cantik & menenangkan...i chose the 10am-2pm promo...so..jus bayar rm168 utk 4 step body massage..sgt la cantik..ingatkan nak tangkap gambar, hp plak cokia punya...kamera sony ada, tapi segan plak nak tangkap gambar..

memula, dia suruh steam badan dulu dalam satu kantung ni...duduk atas kerusibwh tu ada periuk bara berisi serai kot(bau serai jer)dlm 15 minit la gak...fresh je duduk dlm tu..then, body massage...dia urut..aduh..sedapnya....dah lah tgh stress2 ni..mmg sedap la..cuma at one stage aku dapat rasa tgn kiri aku mcm tergeliat sket time dia urut...tapi still rasa ok la....part paling best time dia urut kat belakang & bahu..peh...ringan jer badan...

next is time for scrubbing...biasala...tapi segan gak la..kena expose sikit2 part2 tertentu..huhu..

dan bila dia nak scrub tgn kiri, time nak angkat sket, aku rasa sakit giler..rupanya kat tpt yg tergeliat tadi tu..maybe dia salah amik tekan urat tak time urut tadi..mmg tak leh nak gerak dah tgn kiri..

hadoi..aku nak cuak dah ni..mcmner ni, pengantin tgn sakit???

and lastly, sebelum mandi susu, aku minta masseur tu betulkan balik urat aku..dia pun panik gak, coz dia kata first time ni customer tersalah urat..aku lagi la risau...then dia try urut2, and dah ok..

so..akupun trus berendam dlm tub, mandi susu..

mmg real susu dlm cangkir, dia tuang..susu suam...bau susu pun ada...wah..best-best!!

overall, mmg berbaloi lah gi serenity spa ....no wonder dia bleh menang banyak award!! they deserve it!!

Lepas gi spa, kami ke C4 subang..nak amik hp sony aku yg dihantar repair.sambil tu nak usha yg baru la kot.yelah, sblm ni By tak bagi beli tanpa dia..so, since dia dah ada ni, gi lah cuci mata..aku minat yg mcm ain nyer..tapi dah discontineu..belek punya belek...kami rembat K660i...tarde in yg lama, top-up another rm400...my busyuk byrkan..hadiah kahwin katanya..!! muah..thanks bebeh..love u so much...selepas saat tu..berbunga2 lah hati ku whole day..heheheh..

trus zass ke rins..mcm citer kat atas tadi..but busyuk left me earlier coz dia keje mlm aritu..nak balik rawang trus la...dkt kul 5, baru la aku tinggalkan butik rins dgn segala baju yg ada penuh dlm keta..huhu...mlmnya lydia 7 family dtg, volunteer nak membantu apape yg patut, so kami juz pack up the paperback accordingly..dekat kul 1 baru tido..there gone my beauty sleep..hehhee

pagi esoknya(khamis) baru lah nak gi amik baju nikah kat butik pesona Asmara, sek 9, bangi...then terus balik, start preparing my hantaran yg tak siap2...mlm tu, abg ajak gi amik air mineral kat stesen petronas..peh..byk giler air..mau taknya, 500 paperbag!!

actually time tu aku a bit moody..pasal hantaran..bukan tak appreciate, tapi aku terkilan la juga, coz dah lari dari konsep..the konsep still there, cuma dari segi presentation dah lain...type of flower used pun lain..dah la ada extra satu dulang..and i was not informed about this at all..yg aku tau, dia nak sponsor cokelat je..tetiba ada bunga rampai..huh..mmg bengang la...bila aku tanya nape tak pakai bunga aku jer, baru standard, she said mama tak bgtau..when i ask mama nape tak inform dia, she replied, mana mama tau..habis, saper jer yg tau ni???mmg mengamuk habis la mlm tu..pas tu nk prepare bilik pengantin plak...mcm gaya & idea contributed by my family members..aku pun naik pening jadinya...

dkt kul 2 baru tido..hrp2 mata tak bengkak..mujur nikah ptg..alamak..inai lupa nak pakai..!!!

so nampaknya mlm tersebut adalah malam terakhir ku sebagai si gadis manis yg single ....

pagi esoknya, hantaran nak kena buat last touch up..tapi awal2 lagi dah gi amik kek kat P10, umah kak anna..mcm ner la ek rupa kek aku yg dah setengah tahun aku book...(http://bake-freshly.blogspot.com/)

konon nak gi sendiri..mama bising, darah tgh manis..suh gi dgn abg...huh..org malas la nak susahkan abg..sian dia...tapi mana boleh lawan ckp mak kan..ikut jer lahhhh....bila dah sampai..lawanya kek aku..ramai yg puji..hehehe..i likeeee!!

then, tengahari tu baru sibuk nak pakai inai..mujur kak juwie & kak ira ada tolong pakaikan..yang sadisnya..time nak pakai inai kat kaki, inai habis plak..minta abg gi belikan kat kedai mamak...then when it is almost 2.30,si nurin my make-up tepon, she's almost here..alamak..inai kat kaki tak kering lagi..mandi pun tak lagi..mmg kelam-kabut..cepat2 gi mandi..time nak cuci inai kat kaki, i found out that inai tu is BLACK..yes..it's black!!! can you imagine, dalam masa yg sangat suntuk..tetiba baru perasan inai kat kaki kaler hitam?? mmg rasa comot giler kaki time tu..puas la gonyoh..tak gak hilang..mmg frust and bengang..malu pun ada gak..kaki pengantin mcm comot..kotor jer rasanya..dek kerana inai hitam tu..nak pakai inai lain pun dah tak sempat..terus mekap,siap2..dah dekat kul 4, still strugling nak bersiap.and dalam kul 5.15, baru nak bertolak ke masjid..debarnya dalam hati, Allah jer lah yang tahu..Ya, Allah ku pohon padaMu, agar keputusan yang kubuat ini betul dan engkau redhai.





by the time, mmg dah no turning back dah..apapun terjadi dan bakal berlaku,mmg kena redha jerla..tapi aku yakin, ini yang aku nak dan ini adalah pilihan yang telah tertulis sejak azali lagi olehNya...dan pasti Dia telah tetapkan apa yang terbaik buat hambaNya...





dan pada jam lebih kurang 5.35pm, aku telah selamat menjadi isteri kepada Mohd Hishamudin..

the new Mr + Mrs Hisham

me..doing the painting works??

holaaa..

last thurs & friday, i took 2 days leave..juz to concentrate helping Busyuk do some minor cleaning & painting works at our new home..

jgn tak percaya, i manage to do the painting in our room all by myself...penat woo...and followed by the dining area the next day.

ari khamis tu, the job we did was hiring contractors to do the plaster ceiling..baru la aku tau mcm tu rupanya buat plaster ceiling..huhu..actually dia dah siap dah design nye..just prepare the frame, letak base dia, and put up the design keliling ...and siap..since kami bajet ciput, so, painting works need to be done by ourselves la kan..
at the same time, i do continue my works painting in our room while hubby ( cewah!!) sambung kerja installing the lights and fans..

the next day, contractor polish parquet plak datang...pegh..mmg tak bleh buat keje lgsung..dorang grind existing parquet sampai habuk kayu berterbangan..bahaya utk kesihatan betul!!! dah ptg2 sket baru kami sambung keje kami..cat dining area n the plaster ceiling..

hehe..it's me doing the painting at the dining area
yang paling hampeh, kan sinki kat dapur tu starter pipe dia hilang & patah dalam..kami pun panggil la org utk repair..dah nego, dia caj rm130..ok la..fine..since we thought kami tak mampu nak repair sendiri & we afraid air dah seeping to umah jiran next door..

sekali dia repair, pecah sket tile tu, potong paip sket, replace new one,keje tak sampai 15 minit, dah blah..and it cost us rm130..

aku yg dari kul 4 cat siling tak siap2 lagi!!

mmg hangin jer kami..ingatkan nak kena pecahkan tiles satu-satu...rupanya senang je keje tu..cit..!!!

total damage these 2 days : almost 1500..

still ok la...to be compare kalo kami tak survey dulu..huhuuhu

counting the days

holaa...

haduih..mmg mengeluh jer la aku sejak dua menjak ni..
aduih,tensen bangat..
tensen nak kawen..
boleh ke mcm tu..risau jerawat naik jer ni..
kalo nak ikutkan, i;m just 16 days away from "that" day..
mcm tak cayer yg teramat..
i'm gonna be a bride soon..
something yg tak sangka will come true..
kad kawen, i've started distributing to all..
but yang paling terkilan...kad utk ain la...
even though kad dia yg first aku tulis, tapi dia bukan yg first dapat..
sowi ain..my time was too packed!!
yg sadisnya, a week before my wedding, i have to attend class la pulak...
hadoiiiii..

mcmner ni..and now i'm a bit bz tolong bebeh bersih2kan umah, etc..kalau la badan ni boleh dibelah-belah..kan bagus...part tangan kiri handle distribute kad,part kaki kiri gi cat umah, tgn kanan start packing nak pindah, and lastly part tangan kanan gi kemas umah mama..
i wish to have that magic wand to make my wish come true..zassss!!

debaran..

hollaa...

debaran yg amat mendebarkan..
itu adalah perasaan yg sedang aku rasakan sekarang ni..maybe it is sumthing common for all bride-to-be in this world..setakat ni, wat i can say, my preparation baru setakat 60%..lotsa work blm settle..thank god tadi tergerak nak tepon pihak masjid, nak tanya apa perlu dibuat selepas dpt kebenaran dpd JAWI..rupanya kena bagi borang2 tu pada masjid...aku ni dgn selambanya kepam doc tu kat umah mama..

nak kata salah sendiri, tak gak..coz aritu aku dah penah tanya org kaunter jawi, lps dpt kebenaran ni, apa lagi nak kena buat..dia cuma kata tggu majlis jer..hampeh betul dorang tu!!

risau ni..hantaran tak terbuat lagi..tak sampai mood lagi..rasa mcm malas2 jer..tapi tgk la..maybe nak try buat weekend ni..

pasal wedding invitation, kengkawan HPC sumer dah diisi..tinggal nak bagi jer.kwn2 rapat sumer dah post...yg lenlain tggu respon mereka thru emel wif their add..

utk sedara mara..aku dah allocate 200pcs kat parents..pepandai dorang la nak bagi saper..cuma aku tgh risau ni, mcm tak cukup jer kadnya..

kenkawan lain..kwn2 utm degree..
kwn2 utm diploma..
kwn2 smss...
mcmner ni...
tak termasuk bdk opis..org maintenance mmg kena bagi sorang satu la..yelah..dah dorang tu my staff..mcm tak elok plak kalo jemput tanpa kad...

food pun aku risau gak..takut takcukup..
door gift lagi..still undecided wat to give..arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...!!

Final Lab @ UTM Skudai (18-23may 09)

Holla...

Akhirnya penderitaan mental yg dialami selama seminggu di sana berakhir..Personally, i admit this lab is really tough..tak macam dulu punya lab..sume spoon feed..haha..tinggal cucuk kat memana lubang yg ada pada set yang ada..tapi kali ni, dahla kena buat research pasal tajuk tu, kena pikir procedure yg perlu dibuat, kena buat simulation, the worst part--kena prepare slides utk presentation...mujur kami ada 4 org; myself,anje,fara & ija..

nak cite sket pasal lab yg dah kitaorg lalui..dia ada 4 stage- dat means kami ada 4 kali pertemuan la bagi setiap subjek..first subjek Advanced power lab..tajuk yg kami dapat "IDMT relay" , supervised by Dr Abdullah Asuhaimi..nice guy, very fatherly & punctual..mmg nasib kami baik dapat dia, to be compared dgn group satu lagi..1st session adalah brainstorming; time ni lah kami kena buat research drps segala source yg ada-net,books,etc 2nd session kena reportkan pada supervisor kami apa outcome yg dah diperolehi from our research.3rd session kena buat experimnet..time ni mmg kami bersyukur sesgt coz technician tu byk sgt bagi input & guidance..and lastly presentation..witnessed by our supervisor & Dr Safawi..group 1 mmg kena kaw-kaw la..mujur group kami, ok...cuma tersalah teori..( dgn selamber buat teori sendiri..hahahaha)


lega yg bukan kepalang bila dah habis present...since mlmnya kelas dibatalkan, kami plan nak gi danga bay..dgn teramat excited nak naik beskal ber4...dari dlm lab dah dok sibuk citer kat sume org nak gi danga bay..last2, sampai sana..takde benda..tak happening langsung..kami juz masuk kat kedai2 yg jual2 brg and i manage to grab a pair of new contact lens to be worn on my big day

cuba teka kaler yg mana satu??

lepas gi Danga Bay, gi jusco Tmn U pulak..berjalan jer kami..yelah..ni jer peluang masa yg ada..time lain packed dgn kelas jer..tak beli pape--fara jer yg sakan shopping.

The next day, utk lab Power E, kami dpt tajuk Boost converter..mujur baru belajar..atleast, something la..tak la zero sgt..rupanya nak kena buat simulation la pulak!! since en Nik ada, aku pun mengadu la, kata tak pandai Pspice..ekekekek..yang best nya dia cakap,takpe, litar dah ada, kamu juz tukar nilai mana2 yg patut..perghhhh!! senang betul keje!! kuz tukar value D, f & V....hahahha..jgn jeles..sejak saat tu, group kami dok bagi aku title "penggoda"..coz aku berjaya menggoda En Nik,,,suka hati je, yer??!!

dan lab yg terakhir pasal ignition coil.mmg tak leh lupa lab ni..1st dapat lecturer yg sangat baik & sempoi- Dr Zulkafle Buntat..baik sgt..2nd aku volunteer nak buat hardware; soldering komponen..hasilnya :

jari yg terkena soldering iron Kesan kapasitor yg meletup

yes...believe it..yg jari terkena solder iron tu mlm khamis..tertepis..fuh, mlm tu nak tido payah bebenor...berdenyut jer..yg kisah kapasitor meletup sebab tersalah polarity..mmg terkezut abis sampai menangis..hahahaha..mmg kecoh la pas tu kena gelak..takpela,,atleast somthing to be remembered by others..time present pun sempoi..laju jer..by 5.30 kelas dismiss..( even b4 noon break hati dah tak sabar nak balikkkkk)..oh yea, lupa nak citer..time lunch break, kami gi Tmn U, kunun nak isi minyak..tetiba ada staff UTM kata tayar keta Ija mcm nak pecah, so kami pun pegi cari kedai tayar..kena pulak kedai tayar dpn salun Felisa..tambah pulak lagi ada promo facial Felisa rm25.maka....aku & ija pun took the opportunity utk buat facial, sampai nak mkn pun tak sempat, pdhal dah kebulur sesgt...nak rush balik ke kelas...

atlast, bertolak dari utm at 9.30pm and reached kajang exit at 12.30am (imagine??!!) and sampai umah subang at 2.15am...

hectic week, but sumthing good to remember forever...

to Ija, fara, Chubby & Anje....thanks for being there wif me for the whole week..korang mmg best!!

to imah-- rugi takde sekali..tapi takpe, baby lagi penting...

jakarta-bandung trip(part 1)

hola people...

yuhuuu..actually citer ni dah quite basi dah..tapi saje nak share..bukan apa-rite after balik from the trip, mmg buzy giles- tak sempat pun nak uploadkan kat sini.besides, most of the pix ada pada kak ira- since bebeh's camera asyik bermasalah jer..

there were 5 of us who went there- myself, my fiance-hisham, mama, abang & sis ira.we took 1030 flight and reached there 2 hours later..( but i think the journey actually took us 1 hr je kot- cume perbezaan timing zone yg jadi 2 hrs.tah la..mmg rasa kejap je dlm plane aritu...

suppose there ain shud join us earlier.due to certain prob, dia tak dpt gi..sampai jer sana, kami naik limo "silver bird" that cost us rp$190,000 to le grandeur hotel, mangga dua.nasib baik time sampai during weekday, maka jalannya kurang macet (jem).lps letak brg kat hotel- trus gi pasar pagi via itc mangga dua..wahh..tak tahannya..ada beg, baju, lawa2..tapi kami trus head to pasar pagi coz katanya souvenir kat cni lg murah.cari-dan-cari, berjumpalah dgn lambakan kedai yg ada..and the prices also varied.mmg kena survey dulu- dan yg penting, samada dorang boleh commit tak utk siapkan brg by this saturday???tak tu yg payah bangat..mostly kata tak berani commit, takut tak siap.

atlast, kami jumpa gak kedainya..dah discus, siap gaduh lagi dgn bebeh ( mmg sedih la tang ni..nak pilih brg kawen pun gaduh gak..sabar,sabar)...dan ta..laa...dah berjaya pilih brg utk my reception doorgift..apa benda tu??hoho..mana bley habaq lagi..

apa yang penting?? pastinya comellllllll..!!!

tengah sibuk memilih doorgift yg ada kat kedai ni

then pas settle tang tu, kami gi survey kedai kad kawen plak...alamak--kebanyakannya mmg lawa bangat, harga pun, ermm..ok la..dlm Rp$3500 dah dpt a good one.tapi..dorang takley siapkan dlm 4 hari..huh!!


di antara salah satu kedai yg kami pegi utk pilih kad kawen kami

mmg byk giler choices yang ada-sumer lawa2..tapi since dorang takley siapkan dlm masa 4 hari,tak dapatlah nak order..:(

pastu, trus dorang trus balik hotel, while myself n bebeh gi jenjalan kat ITC mall.tapi malangnya, kedai kebanyakan dah tutup, padahal, jam baru pukul 6.15pm..yes..itulah part yg tak best kalo gi indon ni..kul 6. kedai dah tutup..kul 8, jln dah lengang, mcm kul 9.30pm kat area shah alam...

so, trus balik hotel...then kami ber-4( mama nak tido kat bilik je) gi lepak kat lounge hotel tgk liveband..yg lawaknya, sumer lagu yang abg request, sume tak dapat dipenuhi..hahaha..balik dari lounge dgn perasaan yg teramat sedih (& nangis lagi..) coz by terasa dgn ckp2 abg, padahal aku rasa, abg was actually pointing it to me- but bebeh plak yg terasa..and atlast, as usual jadi mangsa keadaan..

and when midnight struck at 12..ding..dong..ding..dong-- frust sgt, nothing is happening..no surprises from anyone; none from my fiance nor my family..

takpelah..aku jer yg terlebey expectation from other people..

3 months away

holaa..

mcm tak cayer tinggal 3 bulan jer lagi before i'm officially becomes Mrs Hisham..setakat ni, barang sumer dah beli..cuma there are few thing blm sort out lagik..here goes my list...

• baju kawen..urmm..ada masalah gak tu..tetiba dapat news my lovely wedding gown hilang ..mujur i've decided earlier not to wear it as my main attire..tapi mmg frust la..suka sgt design baju tu..dah mcm2 org komen sexy la,itu lah..kutepis semuanya..nak jugak..my wedding day..once in my whole life..buat pe nak dengar ckp and komen org..do wat u wanna do..wear watever u wanna wear...so, hikmah di sebalik kehilangan baju tu, aku jadi frust- coz my wedding fantasy are now gone---uwawaaa.. tapi at the same time, aku boley cut cost kot..since my earlier plan tak cadang pun nak tukar baju time potong kek..hurmmm..watever..

• catering- choosen, tapi belum gi food tasting lagi..
• lokasi - Dewan Kejiranan Presint 9
• hantaran...lepas final exam baru nak start concentrate..
• kad jemputan..maybe next week baru bley decide..
• door gift - dah survey ..tunggu masa nak order
• gambar - my dear bro& sis dah tolong book & bayarkan(alhamdulillah..thnx alot)
• mekap - dah book n cinfirm dgn rumie
• cincin - dah lama beli
• guest list - my frens dah ler..family members?huhu..tolak ke parents la utk handle
• honeymoon - wajib beli awal..settle!!!!
• H.I.V test - done!! i'm free from hiv virus..

apa lagi ek??? ooo..DJ!! tak tau mana mau cari..takut macam mahal jer..ada ker yg bawah rm300???

urusan dgn jurunikah belum settle lagi..tu la, bebeh ni leceh la..lambat sgt uruskan part dia..aku risau betul kalau date tu dah penuh..huh!!

cuma yang mengganggu aku skang ni..nak cari fotografer kat Dungun..bajet ciput, nafsu besau..hahaha...takde jumpa lagi yang berkaliber, yet cheap..mmg ada yg below rm1k, tapi bebeh's bajet below rm700..hurmmmm...payah betul..!!

that all for now, i guess..

adios!!